Twelve Tips on How to Tell Your Children About Your Divorce

Rafael Richman, Ph.D.
The process of separation and divorce can be very painful for you and for your whole family.  Below, however, you can find some tips and details to make talking to your children about your decision to separate or divorce somewhat easier:

1.   Choose an appropriate time and place for your conversation.
Choose a time and place that […]

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